Morgan and her mother quickly piled into her mother's car under the cover of darkness. It was a trip that posed great danger and could only be accomplished at night. The roads they took were rough and poorly maintained. Then again, these were the real backroads, as traveling on the main highway to their destination could and would draw unwanted attention, especially given the time of night. Morgan clutched the blanket she was under, as fear began to take over. She never pondered the decision no was the trip causing her fear. It was simply the repercussions of what she and her mother was doing. Morgan grimaced with every bump her mother could not avoid. And each time, her mother would glance back and offer an apology. Morgan would nod her head in understanding, and glance back out at the night scenery. She watched the trees as the car drove by, and soon enough, tears were falling down her face.
Friday, December 3, 2021
A Cautionary Tale about overturning Roe V. Wade
Thursday, December 2, 2021
The Road To Nowhere At The Barrel of a Gun
I honestly don't know how this blog is going to turn out. Normally I plot these things in my head, and then I write them. Being able to do that as always been an ability of mine. Yet as I sit here, typing this post, I'm at a loss, a complete loss. When I heard of the shooting at Oxford High School in Oxford, Michigan, it brought me back to Columbine.
America: A Land of contradictions
Sometimes it's the simplest things that will trigger a thought. Yesterday I was watching TV and an ad came on for bottled water. It really struck me as odd. Our founders put to paper that Americans should have access to life, liberty, and happiness. And here we are charging people for something it is essential to life, water. We have crippled our system so much that we now sell bottled water. Now, I could point out that this is capitalism run amuck, but that would be too great and clear of an observation. When in fact, that seems to be more or less, what America is founded on.
Wednesday, December 1, 2021
Rankin Fitch and Donald Trump
In reading a recent op-ed by Frida Ghitis from CNN.com I'm struck by a thought. Her Op-ed is about the tide turning against Donald Trump. She says "Trump will end up crushed by either his bullying ways or by his loyal followers, with little support from the rest of the GOP." which leads me to the end of the film Runaway Jury.
Wednesday, July 28, 2021
What we can learn from Willard Herschberger
It is really hard to fathom the hatred that is
being spewed from the likes of Charlie Kirk and his ilk. All of their venom
directed at Simone Biles because she actually values her mental health is such
a sickening display. Then again of course, these are the same folks that stood
and applauded when Donald Trump mocked P.O.W.’s. Kirk has led his followers to
call Biles unamerican, simply because she bowed out of the Olympics to focus on
her mental health.
And this brings me to Willard Herschberger.
Herschberger was a catcher for the Cincinnati Reds before World War II. He was
born in California and was a high school baseball teammate of Richard Nixon,
who’d go on to infamy as president of the United States. In high school Willard
was a star player not only in baseball, but in football as well. It wasn’t long
before the scouts showed up, and Willard found himself playing in the minors
for the most popular baseball team at the time, the New York Yankees.
However, good times were marred with a tragedy. Upset
over family finances, Willard’s father took his own life via a handgun. Willard
navigated his way through this and despite early struggles, began to show some
promise as a minor league player. The Yankees however, had a future hall of
famer player named Bill Dickey blocking Willard’s path to the majors. The Reds
called the Yankees, since they were looking to have a capable back-up to Ernie
Lombardi, who was one of the top stars of the era. Not only did Willard perform
well, he almost took the starting job away form Lombardi. And Willard would
even get a chance to take a shot at the New York Yankees, the team that had
traded him away. The Reds faced off against the Yankees in the World Series.
Willard drove in the game tying run in game four, but the Reds lost the World
Series to the Yankees.
In 1940, Willard was secure in his position behind
Lombardi. However, events would take a tragic turn in July of 1940. The Reds
dropped a double header to the Boston Bees (now known as the Atlanta Braves)
with Willard going 0-6 in game two. Willard blamed himself for the loss,
confiding to teammate Billy Werber that had Lombardi caught that game, the Reds
wouldn’t have lost. Willard blamed himself for calling a terrible game for the
pitchers. He even made reference to taking his own life, just as his father had
done years before. Reds manager Bill McKechine talked to Willard and soon it
seemed that Willard had calmed down. McKechine then made a tragic error, he
assumed Willard would be fine.
The next day Willard missed batting practice. A
Reds official contacted the hotel Willard was staying at, and was informed by
Willard that he wasn’t feeling well and wouldn’t be able to play. It was agreed
upon that Willard would at least be at the game in street clothes and would
cheer on the team.
The first game of the double header with the Bees
had come and gone, no sign of Willard. So the Reds called a childhood friend of
Willard’s that lived nearby and had him go to the hotel and check on him. When
he arrived, Dan Cohen, the man whose duty was to retrieve Willard, was welcomed
by a locked door. He then went to the front desk, and explained he was sent
there by the Cincinnati reds to check on one of their players. The manager,
with Cohen, was able to gain access to the hotel room, where they found Willard
dead in the bathroom. He had slashed his own throat. After the Reds finished the
second game, Bill McKechine gathered the team together, and informed them of
Willard’s suicide.
Willard Herschberger lived in a time where no one
gave any thought to mental health. You just picked yourself up, dusted yourself
off, and went about your day. The traditional role for a man was that you never
gave into emotions. You had to be tough at all times.
Willard is a cautionary tale. Donnie Moore is a
cautionary tale. Donnie Moore never got over giving up the game winning home
run that cost the Angels the shot at the World Series. Three years later, he was
dead, took his own life after a failed murder/suicide attempt.
Freddie Prinze seemed to have it all back in the
1970’s. He ended up taking his own life.
And this is why finally we take mental health
seriously. There is a lot of pressure in our daily lives. The amount of
pressure on a professional and Olympic athlete, especially in the time of
social media, has become tremendous. We need to support Simone Biles, not scold
her. We need to let her know we’re there for her, not there to mock her.
Clearly, Charlie Kirk and his ilk have a base to play to. A base of rabid
patriots who consider the slightest gesture as a challenge to the flag. To
them, Kirk has them believing that Biles is a traitor on par with Benedict
Arnold or Aldrich Ames. And that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Simone Biles is a brave woman. Many struggle to
admit to themselves in private what she admitted to the world. Hopefully this
starts a positive trend. A human life is more important than a sporting event,
even such as grand as the Olympics. And it’s about time we remember that.
Monday, May 24, 2021
Winning The Argument For Police Reform
The following blog was inspired on May 24th
thanks to a discussion I became part of on a thread on Facebook. A woman had
posted her distress over someone stealing her car. She mentioned she was going
to call the police, despite not being overly trusting of them. Cue one person
that had to chime in with “See, you don’t like cops, but who do you call when
you need help? The cops.”
I decided to engage in the conversation, and brought
many of the points I’ll be talking about in this blog. The woman responding was
entrenched in her original argument, her responses became circular and thankfully,
the moderator ended up closing off comments. However, thanks to this woman I
was finally able to craft the perfect way to defuse those who claim you can’t
seek police reform and still ask for their help when needed. So, if you feel
that serious police reform is needed, and you post about an incident where you
needed police assistance, and someone pulls that line on you, there’s several
ways you can defeat their argument. And here it is.
It’s not police as a whole that you distrust, it is
the bad apples that manage to paint police as a whole in a bad light. It really
is high time that we find a way to remove these folks from service before the
overall image of police is damaged to a point no one trust them as a whole.
Another issue that needs to be addressed is the
loopholes that allow an officer with a history of use of excessive force and
other rules violations to essentially gypsy from department to department.
There was, for example, a case that made national news in Ohio a few years ago where
a man was shot in the back by an officer who’d transferred from another
department in another state. This officer had a long record of use of force
violations and questionable shooting incidents. He’d also been fired from a
third department for those exact reasons.
You could also mention your fears about the
equipment that departments have been able to acquire. For example: There’s no
reason that a city with a rather small population should have a fleet of
military SUV’s that the department will most likely never use, and will sit in
a garage collecting dust. While these vehicles may make for some cool and
intimidating photo shoots, they have no practical use for this department. Not
to mention it was your tax dollars that most likely paid for this vehicle. And
when they mention some unique setting in which the vehicle will be needed, simply
reply that the odds of such an event actually occurring are rather remote, so
remote that it still does not justify the purchase of said vehicle.
Over the last several years, it feels that
departments have placed diplomacy aside and instead feel the need to intimidate
instead. Yes, granted, there are cases where crowds are unruly and drastic matters
need to be put in place. However, showing up at protest you know the odds are
that it won’t become violent, and your department opts to show up dressed in
tactical gear, you’ve already turned up the heat and by the actions of the
department, inflamed tensions. It is almost like the department has shown up
looking for a fight.
No one wants to engage an angry person. People tend
to take insults to heart. However, police in these cases must set personal
feelings aside and simply allow someone to vent. And for those that think this
is a wild and impractical idea, allow me to use an incident that happened in
Toronto, Canada back in 2015 as an example.
A man, angry at life in general, pulled a knife on
a cop, and threatened him. The officer sat on a nearby desk and engaged the man
in conversation. No one ended up getting shot, no one was tased and most
importantly, no one died. The officer, without any use of force, was able to actually
get the man calmed to the point where the man gave the cop the knife and
surrender to police. I have to admit, I
was amazed at the poise of the officer to never once lose his cool and how he
was able to defuse the situation. Feel free to use that as example if you ever
engage someone really entrenched in their if you don’t support cops, don’t call
them if you need them argument.
As you can see with the example, force doesn’t
always need to be the first option. And that is part of the problem people seem
to have. A frustration over the fact that we’ve seen countless Body Wore Camera
footage where a police officer engages a person and the officer is already at
an eleven as far as their emotions go. No calming voice, just get on the ground
or I’ll shoot you. And that in many cases, is only going to make a bad situation
worse. Why is it police in other countries can defuse a situation with words
and we can’t? Is it our training methods? Is it our desire to prove were the
alpha dog in the situation? Could it be that were already so stressed as a
culture, we don’t know how to react without overreacting?
And it doesn’t have to be in an internet thread
that you use the above talking points. You could use them with a friend or
family member that sees your calls for police reform as an attack on police
themselves. It should not have the death of George Floyd to spark change. Change
should have not just started with Eric Canter. It should have started when Bull
Connor turned firehoses on children as young as six years old who used their
voice to protest. To think that serious reform is not needed is simply not
accepting that facts before you. Seeking police reform, and rooting out police
officers that are more Hollywood cliches than actual cops should not be a
controversial topic. When you present the argument that it is in the best
interest of police to root out these cops, and to no longer purchase surplus
military equipment as a tool to instill fear in the citizens, you’ll seen the
relationship between the community police improve to heights you could not
imagine right now. And how knows, once someone sets emotion aside in favor of
intellect, they’ll see the issue as well. And an adversary will become an ally.
Tuesday, March 2, 2021
Dr. Seuss and The Origins of Cancel Culture
Scrolling through social media and seeing conservatives outraged at “Cancel Culture” amuses me in a way mere words cannot do justice. They act as if this was something created by liberals and social justice warriors. They say they are trying to control what people watch on T.V. and what type of books they can read, and so forth. And of course, these people, the likes of Ben Shapiro and Candace Owens get applauded by their legions of fans, many of whom are clueless to the fact. Clueless to the fact that the seeds for what conservatives claim to despise were planted year ago. To be frank, crying about cancel culture is just conservatives yelling at the tree they planted.
Now, I should say the books written by Dr. Seuss
that are being discontinued are books that I’d never heard of, not a single one
of them. And some of the images in the book are wildly inappropriate, but they
fit the times in which they were written because that was the mindset of
society. I’ve had to research the books and looking at them through the prism
of modern times, I get why people are offended. As someone of Sicilian and Italian
heritage, I get why people are upset. Me, I just roll at laugh at the stereotypes
I see. I don’t let it bother me at all. I get that many times, the stereotypes
exist because they fit the narrative of the story or the joke.
Let’s address cancel culture. It’s a rather new buzzword
that is completely meaningless. Yeah, it gets clicks on the internet and gives
news networks something to fill T.V. time with. It is, however, something that
has its roots with conservatives and it’s something much more sinister than
what exist today.
Lenny Bruce is one of the greatest comedians of
all-time. Bar none, just bar none. He’s the guy that started it all, the counter-culture
humor that gave us George Carlin, Richard Pryor, and Sam Kinison, among many
others. Bruce was arrested for saying the word ‘cocksucker’ on stage.
Conservatives, especially the Christian conservatives, set their sights on him.
They didn’t like that he poked fun of religion. And when Bruce faded away, they
set their sights on Carlin and Pryor. And each time, they used children as
pawns, saying that they unbridled comedy of these men would destroy impersonable
children. It would lead to the breakdown of polite society. Simply because they
found it offense, they felt it gave them license to set the tone for everyone else.
And it wasn’t just comedians these conservatives tried to cancel.
M*A*S*H and All In The Family were like no
sit-coms before them. Yeah, sit-com provided great entertainment and provided
and escape, but in no way shape of form going to address social issues. Star
Trek used thinly storylines to address issues like racial tensions and
other social issues. M*A*S*H may have been set in Korea, but its attempts to
show the true horrors of war were clearly aimed at Vietnam. And All In The
Family addressed racism, and other social issues. And because conservatives
did not like these shows, these shows became the targets of write-in campaigns,
if not to get the shows canceled, but perhaps to get the shows utterly revamped
to fit their taste.
If you need a modern example, The Simpsons has
been the bane for conservatives since the 1980’s. Same goes for South Park.
Conservatives have been trying to cancel comedians and shows for decades.
However, they want everyone to forget their history. They seek to re-cast
themselves as the protectors of the first amendment, when they are the same
ones that literally put Larry Flynt on trial over a parody interview of Jerry
Falwell.
One thing that the likes of Candace Owens, Tomi
Lahren, and Ben Shapiro don’t want their follows to do is to research. If they
did their own research, they’d see that the very people they follow and though
were champions of freedom of speech are themselves products of those that
created what would become cancel culture in the first place. Fox News, Newsmax,
OAN, of the conservative news outlets as well will declare this an assault on
the first amendment, yet they are the ones that champion and take pride in the
fact that Colin Kaepernick has been blackballed from the NFL. And all Kaepernick
do was take a knee during a song to shine a light on police brutality. Funny
how they fail to mention Kaepernick, they man they tried to cancel. I guess its
okay for them to cancel someone. And that’s just it, when you boil it down to
the essentials. Conservatives started something years ago, and when the tables
get turned, they don’t like it. So next time a conservative gets angry and
cries cancel culture, just mention Colin Kaepernick, and see what type of response
you get. I’m sure they will come up
excuses and do a lot of verbal tap dancing to avoid admitting they are guilty
of doing that which they decry.